UMathewu McCONAEHI wakhuluma ngezikhathi ezibuhlungu ezivela esikhathini esedlule esimweni esisha se-Memoirs "amalambu aluhlaza". Lapho-ke wavuma ukuthi iminyaka engu-8 akazange akwazi ukuxhumana noMama Kay ngemuva kokuqala ukudlulisa izingxoxo zawo uqobo nabezindaba nezinye izindlela zokukhaphela ukuzethemba kwakhe ngezinye izindlela. Ngolunye usuku wathinta lesi sihloko eSiriusxm Stern Stern Show.
"Ngabiza umama, ngangidinga ukukhuluma naye. Kepha owesifazana owakhuluma ngocingo wayengumuntu othanda inkazimulo yami, "kuphawula lowo mculi, enezela ukuthi bawabona ephephandabeni ngemuva kwesikhashana.
Ithonsi lokugcina kwakuyingxoxo yethelevishini yokuthi umama wanikela endlini yobuntwana bakhe, lapho ekhombisa khona embhedeni, lapho uMcConaeh alahlekelwe ubuntombi, wavula eminye imininingwane. Lapho umlingisi ezama ukuthola ubuhlobo, uKay waqala ukwenqaba konke, wabe esevuma ukuthi wayenethemba lokushiya izingxoxo zimfihlo kuye.
Ngemuva kwalokho uMathewu wayeka ukuxhumana nonina futhi cishe akukho lutho olwahlukaniswe iminyaka eyisishiyagalombili. Uzibiza ngalezi zingxoxo "izingxoxo zemizuzu emihlanu ngezinombolo zocingo ngamaSonto, lapho elalela kuphela." Kusukela lapho, umdwebi wakwazile ukumthethelela umama futhi abuyisele ukukhulumisana nobungane naye, yize uMcCONAAH kufanele afake eminye imingcele.