Mayelana nokugonywa kwezingane: "Kunemininingwane eminingi yesayensi nemininingwane ethembekile ngesidingo sokugoma. Izingane ezihlushwa izifo ze-autoimmune noma ziphathwa ngomdlavuza, awukwazi ukugoma. Amasosha abo omzimba abuthakathaka kakhulu kulokhu uma ingane yakho inale yi-leukemia, ayikwazi ukugonyelwa. Kepha uma ingane yakho iya esikoleni kanye nengane yami, enginqume ukuthi ingangeni phansi, khona-ke iyavela ukuthi ngibeka ingane yakho engcupheni. Akwamukeleki kimi. Phakathi kwethu kukhona abantu ababuthakathaka abadinga ukuvikeleka. Njengabomama, sinesibopho hhayi ingane yakho kuphela, kodwa nakwezinye izingane. Abantu bavame ukwesaba. Kepha ingane yakho inethuba eliphindwe ka-100 liphethwe yisigameko sombani kunokuba yisisulu sokusabela komzimba komuthi wokugoma. Kuyiqiniso ".
Ngendlela izingane ezishintsha ngayo impilo yakhe: "Imibuthano yethu yesidlo sakusihlwa isishintshile. Manje izivakashi zihanjelwe izivakashi kuma-diaper akhetha kakhulu ekudleni. Lapho uDisa ubuze: "Sikutholaphi zonke lezi zingane?" Ngisabonakala kuyinqaba ukuthi manje senginomndeni wabane. Nginabantu ababili! Impilo yethu isishintshile, kodwa hhayi ngomqondo omubi. "
Ngokwelashwa komndeni: "Uzokhiqiza kakhudlwana ekuzibandakanyeni ejimini ngaphansi kokugadwa komqeqeshi. Ngeke ufunde ukuthi ungakulungiselela kanjani lesi noma leso sidlo ngaphandle kokufunda iresiphi. I-Psychotherapy akuyona into ebiza u-Asha.