UJada oneminyaka engu-43 wavuma ukuthi wake washada kakhulu. Wayeneminyaka engama-25 kuphela lapho benquma ukudala umndeni ngentando. "Akunakugwenywa, cha! Ungakwenzi, - ubizelwe umlingisi. "Kukithi, konke kwavela, kodwa ngizokutshela, konke lokhu kungenxa yokuthi, ngibonga uNkulunkulu, ungathembela ngokuphelele kumyeni wami: kusukela ngo-25 kuye ku-44."
UJada wengeza: "Umshado unjengohambo, futhi kudingeka uqine," kudingeka usebenze kuwo, uqonde. " Kufanele wethembe lowo osondele kuwe. Futhi ekugcineni, angikho lapha ukuze ngilandele umuntu. Angimlandeli. Ungumuntu okhulile. "
UPinkett Smith uqinisekisile nokuthi lowo oshade naye akawona umhawu ngokuphelele abanye besifazane: "Uma kwenzeka okuthile, ngisazi. Kwesinye isikhathi kuba khona umbhangqwana, uma ungazi kahle ukuthi indoda yakho ikuphi manje. Kepha iqiniso langempela kimi yilapho ungabheka ngamehlo akhe futhi ubone ukuthi uluthanda futhi uyakuthanda. Angivelanga nalabo besifazane abakholwa ukuthi indoda ngeke idonsele abanye besifazane. Iqiniso lokuthi owesilisa uheha omunye umuntu wesifazane akusho ukuthi akakuthandi. Futhi lokhu akusho ukuthi uzokwenza okuthile. Uma umuntu wakho engaboni ubuhle babanye besifazane, pho, kufanele kanjani, uzokubona okwakho? "